I ran out of ideas a title...
I got in late last night...it was my fault I understand. It was about 10:30
I don't have a set curfew, but I'm not allowed to go out for all hours of the night, which obviously makes sense. But what really pisses me off, is that my mom doesn't understand that I don't always know when I'm going to be home. To the EXACT minute.
My mom will FREAK OUT if I get home TWO minutes after. You think I'm kidding? HAH I wish. It really pisses me off because I have the worst time making plans because it's so hard to actually go through with them, when I have a mom like mine who CONTROLS EVERYTHING. I understand that parents have to control their teens to a certain extent. But I can't make any decision by myself. For real. Even what shampoo I use is her decision. It's just lame... My mom makes a fight out of everything.
My father even agrees. They've been divorced since I was 7. Which didn't affect me at all, I didn't care that they got divorced it's not one of those stupid sob stories.
But when they were married, she acted as if she was superior to him.
She tries to make everything a fight. Really. And the tone of voice she uses just makes me so angry so quickly. I'll try to start a conversation with her, just a normal conversation, and she'll put me down as much as she can.
It's gotten to the point where I seclude myself from the family and I just go upstairs in my room and stay there. Or I go out with friends and then get in trouble for it after of course.
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To win an argument accept and understand their point of view first.
For example understand why they are choosing that exact shampoo then you will understand the reasoning for why they are choosing it. Then by using their reasoning you can ask them to listen to your point of view but now you are armed with their way of reasoning and you use this to win the argument.
Opinions like watches run
each believes their own
but none runs just the same
yeah here's the problem.......i do that.
This is why I'm to the point that I am, because I will accept my mom's views and opinions and tell them to her and she'll say I'm right, but she's not willing to compromise with anything. She won't ever see my side. And I'm not one of those troublesome kids either. I mean I'm not going to list of my good and bad qualities because that's just weird :-P but I don't give her any reasons to be concerned about my decision making skills.
I guess you would just have to live with her to understand.